Stay calm.
/My daughter spent about 15 minutes this morning looking for Bear before finding him (or her) in the bottom of the toy box.
“I don’t want Mom to know I found Bear,” she said. “It’s a secret.”
“Why?” I asked. “So you can surprise her?”
“No!” she said, sounding incredibly frustrated. “I don’t want to tell her. You guys get too excited about stuff. I just don't like that."